Masculinity is a socially constructed identity that is often associated with traits such as strength, dominance, and emotional control. However, this rigid definition of masculinity can lead to significant mental health concerns for men.

The societal pressure to conform to traditional masculine norms can lead to men feeling the need to suppress their emotions and hide their vulnerabilities, which can result in stress, anxiety, and depression. Men are often discouraged from seeking mental health support due to stigma and the fear of being perceived as weak or less masculine.

It is crucial to recognise that mental health concerns can affect anyone, regardless of their gender or societal expectations. However, men may be less likely to seek help due to the stigma surrounding mental health, which can lead to untreated mental health concerns and worsening symptoms.


Jason Dudley MBACP

Approaches to consider

It is crucial to recognise that mental health concerns can affect anyone, regardless of their gender or societal expectations. However, men may be less likely to seek help due to the stigma surrounding mental health, which can lead to untreated mental health concerns and worsening symptoms.

One approach to addressing masculinity and mental health concerns is to incorporate a gender-sensitive approach in counselling. This involves recognising and understanding the unique challenges that men face in seeking mental health support and the impact that societal expectations may have on their mental health.

Another approach is to incorporate mindfulness-based interventions into counselling. Mindfulness involves bringing attention to the present moment and accepting thoughts and feelings without judgement. It can help individuals develop greater emotional regulation and resilience, which can be beneficial for men who may struggle with emotional expression.  

It is also important to recognise the role that social support plays in men’s mental health. Men may benefit from developing supportive relationships with other men who share similar experiences and struggles. Group therapy and peer support groups can provide a safe and supportive space where men can share their experiences and develop meaningful connections.

Finding what works

Ultimately, addressing masculinity and mental health concerns involves recognising and challenging societal expectations and promoting a more inclusive and accepting definition of masculinity. By creating safe and supportive spaces for men to explore their emotions and vulnerabilities, we can work towards promoting mental health and well-being for all individuals.